More than a place to stay — Frog Meadow is a sanctuary where men feel welcome, seen, and at home.
Hushpitality (noun)
/ˈhəsh-piˌtalə-tē/
1. An approach to hospitality that invites guests to slow down, disconnect, and recharge their spirit through quiet comfort, natural beauty, and genuine connection.
2. The art of creating space for rest — where conversation, laughter, and stillness coexist in harmony.
At Frog Meadow, hushpitality comes to life. Nestled on twenty-five acres of Vermont countryside, our bed & breakfast offers men a place to slow down, connect, and simply be. Whether you’re soaking in the wood-fired hot tub under a canopy of stars or sharing stories over breakfast, every moment here is designed to help you unwind and recharge.
Each of our six rooms and cottages has its own character — cozy, comfortable, and quietly luxurious. Some guests come to hike or explore nearby towns; others come to read by the fire or do absolutely nothing at all. However you spend your time, the common thread is ease.
More than a getaway, Frog Meadow is a gathering place for men who value warmth, authenticity, and community. It’s where laughter carries across the meadow, friendships form over long breakfasts, and you’re free to be yourself — fully and without pretense.
This is the heart of hushpitality: genuine welcome, unhurried connection, and the simple joy of being exactly where you are.
Long before it became a haven for men from around the world, the land that is now Frog Meadow was home to the original village of Newfane. More than two centuries ago, this hilltop was bustling with life — complete with a courthouse, two hotels, a schoolhouse, and even a pillory. By the 1820s, the entire village had been relocated down the mountain to what is now Newfane Village, leaving behind only stone foundations and the whisper of history among the trees.
In 1995, Scott and Dave discovered the hillside property that wold become Frog Meadow and fell instantly in love. Beneath the tangle of brush and forest, they found remnants from the old village — a foundation where a home once stood, and a view that took their breath away. From that foundation, both literal and symbolic, they built Frog Meadow. One Thanksgiving, as Dave prepared a meal and printed the evening’s menu, he whimsically wrote Frog Meadow at the top — inspired by the frogs in the pond, the meadow that surrounded it, and the warmth of their home.
Over the next two decades, Scott and Dave created something extraordinary: a Vermont bed & breakfast that welcomed men from all walks of life to rest, connect, and celebrate themselves. Their spirit of warmth and belonging defined the Frog Meadow experience and cultivated a devoted community of guests who returned year after year.
Among them was David Jacques, known to many as Davey Wavey. From his very first stay, David felt that Frog Meadow was unlike anywhere else — a place that felt like home. When Scott and Dave began to imagine their retirement, David knew he wanted to help write the next chapter of this Vermont treasure. In 2025, he became the new owner of Frog Meadow, carrying forward its heart and heritage while infusing it with fresh energy and vision.
Today, with innkeepers Jeremiah and Zac Sugarbaker warmly welcoming guests, Frog Meadow continues to embody the same inviting spirit that Scott and Dave began — a place where men can unwind, be themselves, and experience true connection.
Camaraderie, Connection & Community
Frog Meadow isn’t just a place to stay—it’s a place to come alive.
In warmer months, wander our trails on a naked hike, share stories by the fire, or cool off with a skinny dip in the spring-fed pond. When the air turns crisp, strap on snowshoes, gaze up at the stars, and feel the quiet magic of Vermont in winter. Year-round, soothe your body and spirit with a soak in the wood-fired hot tub or a deeply relaxing massage. Every experience here is an invitation to reconnect—with nature, with others, and with yourself.
Meet The Innkeepers
Every great oasis has its keepers—and at Frog Meadow, that’s Jeremiah and Zac Sugarbaker. Partners since 2017 and newly married in 2024, their love story began the modern way: on Grindr. Zac was at a coffee shop across the street, Jeremiah crossed over to say hello—and the rest is history.
Originally from Nashville and Denver, the Sugarbakers now call Frog Meadow home. Jeremiah is a fiction writer and drag queen known as Mossy Stone, and Zac brings a background in education and a gift for making everyone feel welcome. Together, they share a passion for the outdoors, tending gardens, and keeping their guests well-fed.
Their greatest joy is creating spaces where LGBTQIA+ people can gather, feel safe, and celebrate themselves—exactly what Frog Meadow has always been about.
Healing Touch
At Frog Meadow, we believe that touch is one of the most powerful forms of connection and healing. Our massages are designed to help you unwind, release tension, and return to yourself—body, mind, and spirit.
Whether you’re melting into a slow, restorative treatment or working deeper layers of muscle and energy, each session is guided by presence and intention. Every therapist brings their own unique skill set—drawing from techniques like Swedish, Deep Tissue, Myofascial Release, and Slow Passive Joint Movement—to create a custom experience that meets you exactly where you are.
Our talented team of guest and resident massage therapists continues a long-standing Frog Meadow tradition of nurturing the body as a pathway to balance and renewal.
Agricultural & Wildlife Sustainability
Frog Meadow sits on 25 acres of pure Vermont magic—land once home to the 1700s Wheeler Farm and its mountaintop apple orchard overlooking historic Newfane Village. Today, that legacy of cultivation continues in a way that blends care for the earth with the joy of living close to it.
Our property is alive with perennial and annual gardens, a thriving varietal apple orchard, and fruit and vegetable beds that provide fresh ingredients for the kitchen and beyond. Our beehives hum through the summer months, helping to pollinate the gardens alongside butterflies, hummingbirds, and bats who also call Frog Meadow home.
Sustainability here isn’t just a practice—it’s a relationship. From composting garden waste to heating our hot tub with wood, we’re guided by a respect for the rhythms of the land and a commitment to leaving this meadow a little better than we found it.
Wicked Good Food!
Food just tastes better when it comes from people and places you know. At Frog Meadow, much of what we serve is grown right here on our 25 acres—or sourced from our neighbors, most within the same zip code.
From eggs, bread, and yogurt to cheese, cider, and honey, our breakfast table celebrates the best of southern Vermont’s farms and artisans. In season, you’ll find berries and apples from our orchard, fresh herbs and edible flowers from the garden, and sweet honey from our own buzzing hives. Every meal is made with care, connection, and a generous helping of Vermont magic.
If you have special dietary needs—vegetarian, gluten-free, or otherwise—just let us know when you reserve. We’re happy to accommodate and ensure there’s something delicious for everyone.
Work Camp & Garden Fellowship Programs
Twice a year, Frog Meadow comes alive with Work Camp—10 to 14 days of camaraderie, laughter, and purpose as we ready the property for the changing seasons. It’s part retreat, part reunion, and part good old-fashioned hard work—with plenty of time for hot tub soaks, shared meals, and new friendships along the way.
Work Campers are welcome to stay for as little as three nights or for the full session. For $25 per night, we provide a cozy bed, hearty breakfast, and lunch. In return, participants lend a hand for about six hours each day—helping with projects like trail clearing, garden prep, housecleaning, or stacking firewood. Evenings are spent sharing BYOB dinners, stories, and laughter around the table.
In addition to Work Camp, our Garden Fellowships and Fellowship Programs offer opportunities to spend extended time at Frog Meadow, learning, creating, and contributing to this special place.
For more information about Work Camp or our fellowship opportunities, contact us.
